Now while older women are often interested in (or at least open to) dating younger men, that doesn’t mean they’re interested in dating “boys”.

Or a 24-year-old girl from New Jersey who happens to blog about her relationship. DON' T use childhood/pop culture references that he will never get.

During one scene, Nick (who else has a major crush on him??

Stand up straight and keep your movements controlled and purposeful (avoid fidgeting).

When you make eye contact, show confidence by holding her gaze (let her look away first).

This combination of confident body language and eye contact will get her to see that you’re the kind of powerful, self-assured man older women like.

Unlike a lot of younger women who are still exploring the dating world, older women have a much stronger idea of what they want.

Does any man really like to be called your Sexy Silver Fox?

Although, I call J "Kid" in this super-cute, ironic way. Whether that's a mature twenty-something, an immature thirty-something, or a quirky lady living with three dudes like Jess.

In fact, do not do this if you want to impress her because she will appreciate how much the meal costs.